Low-Key happiness

#1) No baby products needed!

I skip soaps, shampoos, lotions, and creams—not out of fear or “crunchy” vibes, just because they’re unnecessary.

Warm water baths rinse everything clean without residue stress. 

•Breast milk handles most issues: Add a frozen bag to bathwater for dry skin (no rinsing needed).

•Diaper rash or irritations? Rinse with water, air-dry thoroughly (especially under arms, leg rolls, and bum). The less moisture trapped in the skin the better.

•Cradle cap? Massage in breast milk (fresh or thawed), let the natural oils lift it, then comb or rinse with water.

(Disclaimer I’m no doctor)🩺

#2 We all co-sleep—on the floor. 

We sleep together on a thin mattress directly on the floor, minimal obstructions(less blankets and pillows) near the small babies.

Newborns get extra caution the first month or so; after that, everyone stays together in the same room.

•I get way more sleep: Roll over for feeds, cuddles, or changes with zero disruption.

Kids (and adults) sleep better in a group—my family sleeps through the night.

•No cribs, no sleep training, no extra bedding laundry. 

#3 No set meal times

Eating depends on wake-ups, schedules, or life season.

•Hungry? We eat—often savory leftovers as the first morning “snack” for high protein, low sugar, and low effort.

•Toddler has an accessible snack drawer to help me track his real hunger cues, so I can offer bigger meals before he grabs.

•Keep it simple: Fruits/veggies for grazing, quick-reheat mains for bigger eats.

I bake something semi daily for a fun, fresh treat the kids and hubby love.

#4 No kids’ cartoons—only shows we all enjoy

TV isn’t the enemy, and I want to watch too, so we stick to content my husband and I enjoy. Here’s a couple suggestions:

-Outdoor Boys (YouTube)

-Paolo from Tokyo (YouTube)

-Little House on the Prairie

-Mighty Machines (YouTube)

-MrBeast (Beast TV)

-More Than Farmers (YouTube)

-World’s Okayest Mom (BuzzFeed YouTube)

-BeardMeatsFood (YouTube)

They get excited spotting recurring things like dogs, cows, cakes, meat, skidoos, or the color purple. Over time, they enjoy what I enjoy.

#5: If Only the Basics! (And I Really Mean Basics) 💕

When I was preparing for my first baby, all I truly wanted was the absolute essentials: a few cozy blankets, some simple clothes, and that was it.

 Of course, sweet gifts roll in, and grandparents (bless them!) want to help with the skyrocketing costs of “everything you need.” But here’s my gentle rule: 

Wait for the need, then fill the need.

We didn’t buy a stroller until about a month after he arrived—turns out we didn’t need one right away. Same with sippy cups, over a year before finding that need, and baby towels? Never bought a single one. Grown-up towels work just fine on tiny humans (who knew? 🤣). 

It keeps your home calm, your mind clear, and your space free of unnecessary clutter.

In today’s world, we can order almost anything in minutes—no need to stockpile like our parents did 60 years ago when baby gear wasn’t just a click away. I totally get why Boomers planned ahead back then, but things are different now.

When loved ones ask, “What can we get you?” I love saying:

A gift card for takeout (new mom survival fuel! 🍲)

Or, “I’ll send you an Amazon link when we actually need something.”

Everyone’s been so happy to respect those soft boundaries—no drowning in extra clothes or plastic toys. You’ll quickly realize babies need way less than people think.

Love to all the Boomer grandparents out there 💜—you raised us well, and we’ve got this next chapter in our own way. 😊

Those are the 5 things I do differently from the Boomers in my life 🤗. Drop a comment—what are some ways you’re parenting differently today? I’d love to hear your tips and stories!